bismillah~
people are so unpredictable
sometimes we thought we really understand ‘em
yet it seemed like we never know ‘em
oh..people are so unique n unexpected
yes sometimes we need to expect the unexpected..
to understand people is to know ‘em..
aah..how’s to know people?
yes we need to be friend with ‘em..
u’ve make friends with ‘em..
that’s good!..
there’s one story, if i’m not mistaken this story occured during the sahabiah period..
the story goes like this..
to really know and understand ur friend,
you have to travel with ‘em,
for 3 days and 3 nights,
travelling, eating, and sleeping together..
yet the place must be a place which is not familiar to any of you,
then we can know the real of your friends,
you will get to know how helpful are they,
how nice are they,
how impatient are they,
people normally will reveal their real attitude during this period..
coz at that moment, there’s no one they know except you..
for the first day,
yes people can control their attitude,
when it turns to the next day and the next day..
people will be theirselves..
you also will be your real you..
oh..what i’m mambling about..
just a two cents thought of me..
oh enough said here..
tadaa~
wslm..peace.. \/
expect the unexpected..

a good friend, a rare thing..
Comment by warx.hensem — April 9, 2007 @ 2:53 pm
salam..
agreed to warx..a good friend,a rare thing..=)
Be it 5 days,5 night u can never really understand ur friends..because people change,constantly..the key is to accept the way as they are.never to understand but accept.(of course kalau ada yg salah dlm bab2 penting kena tegur..huhu)..
and not to forget,appreciate..=)
Comment by amie — April 10, 2007 @ 12:00 am
to warx,
yes indeed! a good friend , a rare thing..
once u have ‘em..
do appreciate ‘em..
Comment by t u r n i n g p o i n t — April 10, 2007 @ 10:08 am
salam..
it’s true amie.
at one point, we feel so comfortable talking to ‘em,
n we feel that we know everything about ‘em,
suddenly, the next day we feel like ..oh hv i ever known any of ‘em?
exactly like u said people change constantly,
yes indeed, we hv to accept ‘em the way they’re..
if we reflect it to us,
we want ppl to accept us the way we’re,
then we have to accept ‘em the way they’re..
kinda a reflectiun huh..
thanks amie
Comment by t u r n i n g p o i n t — April 10, 2007 @ 10:17 am